But voyeurism is not sex, and, in the eyes of some, neither is mutual masturbation.
It is the base unit of casual sex among men, and lends itself to cruising and other non-bedroom rendezvous.
Most of the men I spoke to are gay and do not identify as solosexual; mutual masturbation is simply something they enjoy among other homosexual diversions.
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Why Some Guys Like Jerking Off Together
New York Jacks is aimed at these men, most of them gay, who are interested in group masturbation — witnessing it, participating in it, and making like-minded friends. The line between a kink and a fetish can be hard to distinguish, but one measure is to define a kink as a sexual proclivity, and a fetish as a necessary condition for sexual satisfaction. Either way, why turn away perfectly good companionship just because the context has changed? As on Grindr, many BateWorld profiles are arrestingly frank about their interests, and in a lexicon as rich as it is specific. Users can also upload public photo albums, which are often also mostly dick pics, but occasionally include faces, too. John Taggart for BuzzFeed News. Everyone I spoke to on Kik pointed me to BateWorld as a community portal, and said men they meet on other apps often ask whether they have a BateWorld profile.